Assalamu’alaikum wa
rahmatullah, bloogie cakep!
Dah lama rasanya
tak bersih-bersih rumah ini. Saatnya memperbaiki perabotan yang dah lama
ditinggalkan. Hehe. Postingan kali ini sepertinya agak controversial di
kalangan tertentu. However, I dare to expose this in order to take a mercy of
Him. It’s extremely much better than ‘being a couple before married’. Oops...
Well, I’d like to
introduce this halal couple. Pertama kali bertemu mereka lewat layar facebook.
Ustadz Dede said that there are three functions of social media. Pertama,
DAKWAH dunk. Niatkan semuanya hanya karena Allah semata. Ya lah, kalau ada niat
lain-lain, bisa gak aman dunia akhirat... Kedua, SILATURRAHIM, alias menyambung
tali persaudaraan dengan saudara seiman. Tapi yang kayak gini mesti hati-hati, ada
yang malah nyuri kesempatan yang gak bener. Kasus Brekele yang sampai bisa
ngebunuh beberapa wanita bakalan bikin kita bergidik ngeri dan harus
berhati-hati, apalagi masalah hati. Ketiga, sosial media itu berguna buat USAHA
alias perniagaan. Nah, kamu yang punya bakat wirausaha bisa dagang via online,
asal tetap sesuai syar’i.
Saya baca
tulisannya, awalnya biasa aja, saya pikir seperti tulisan kebanyakan, karena
memakai bahasa Inggris kali ya.
A day as husband and wife –
Today
is one of the most wonderful day in my life, though everyday was very nice and
pretty, but one big different that changed me is , Allah swt fortunate me with
an angel , my dearly wife.
Its
been almost 7 months we’ve been married, and about 6 month I left her in
Malaysia ; im taking medical courses in Alexandria University in Egypt, and I
still got 3 years left, and now , I got a whole semester of holidays , and Im
taking this opportunity and responsibility to be with her, yes her, my angel
We’ve
have moved on to Puncak Alam, about 20 kilometres from UiTM Shah Alam , the
place was a suburban, really calm and beautiful, and most cheerful, every
morning, we could see a signboard saying “ Awas, Tapir Melintas Jalan “ , and
in my mind like , lol a Tapir in Puncak Alam :)
Dear
my muslim brothers and dear muslimah sisters,
Our first day as a family , as husband and wife ( before this , both of us stay
with our parents , though we’re married T_T” ) in our new house, my wife would
wake up early at 5 a.m as I could remember or earlier, she’ll wake me up too,
and pleasantly and pleasurably going for the Tahajud prayers, it’s a very calm
morning and she’ll decorate me a cup of Milo and some breakfast before I’m
going to Fajr Prayer
Oh
Allah swt, throughout my life, I’ve never felt this awesome and energetic
feeling , its so enthusiastic , and returning home from the nearby Surau after
the prayer, I would knock the door and open it with “ Assalamu’alaikum wahai
bidadari syurga (peace upon you oh the angel of heaven) “, and the way she
smiled, you guys will never imagine , the harmonios art of God , and I kept
that divine word every day on entering our home
For
our groceries, both of us still lacks experience in cooking , well that’s not a
big deal, its not a defect , practices make perfect, so we spent couple of
hundreds ringgit in groceries, chocholates , and fruits. Now I know, how a
“taugeh” looks really nice in shape, the freshing smells of “ikan masin (salted
fish ) and the most chilling voice of makcik screaming “ ikan ikan satu kilo
enam ringgit ( come, fish for six ringgits ) , my wife still looks beautiful in
her niqab/hijab , I love to see her in her appearance, her beauty radiates the
shopping mall
For
our evenings, we took a ride in the garden, how romantic we were, there was a
beautiful lake, childrens running and playing with each others, and another
families also taking a walk in the garden. On that time, I whispered to my
angel , our babies will be cute and adorable like her, she smiled, we are not
planning to have children by now , maybe a couple of years later, InsyaAllah (
God’s will )
And
for the last part of our day session was the night, after returning from the
Surau for Isya’ prayer , my wife prepared me a simple dish yet really
pleasantly delicious and stuffed me for a whole night, she presented me my
favourite “ Tom Yam Ayam “ dishes , we put the dishes on a small table in front
of the television, and the first food entered my mouth was from her hand,
gently. I would say, she is an angel, and it wasn’t a mistake in my life to
choose early marriage as an option. It’s not a good option , but the best!
Well,
I never wrote an article in English, today is Monday, and my wife and I is on a
game, which is to have a fully day of English on Monday and Thursday, well, we
could learn some new vocabs and fluently talk in English. I enjoyed this game
so much because, everytime one of us that talk non-english words, we will be
punished to kiss on the cheeks. Hihi.
Tomorrow
is Tuesday, and we will talk in Terengganu’s accent, waiting that tomorrow to
come fast!
Early
marriage is so much fun guys! Oh dear my Muslim brothers and sister, If u guys
found already your partner, I would advise, PLEASE NO COUPLE AND DATING , YES
TO MARRIAGE,
I already
spent 3 years of coupling with a girl before and it was a big mistake and such
waste of money and lots of sins but by marriage, a day passes like a thousand
of years , lovely and charm
Good
luck , never gave up, the more you try to gain the truth, the more Allah swt
will help you , amiin, furthermore, if you guys still worry about "where
to find money" or " how to gain more income ", may this verse
from quran relieves you, it totaly worked for me
"...And marry the
unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves.
If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is
all-Encompassing and Knowing..."
Surah An-Nur : verse 32
*Oh
and I forget to tell, both of us just only 21 years old :)
And
you know what, tulisan ini baru diposting tanggal 18 Maret lalu, which is means
that they are really young for married. However, kalau sudah punya persiapan
dari semua hal, insyaallah semua jadi berkah. Selama itu diniatkan meraih ridha
Allah, menurut kamu baik-baik aja, kan?
Jangan
sampai pemikiran orang-orang liberal menjadikan kita tertipu. You know, kita
seperti tak kenal lagi bagaimana Islam sesungguhnya, sehingga anti dengan agama
itu sendiri. Tidak kenal dengan ajarannya, hanya dengar banyak orang bicara,
ikut-ikutan, lantas binasa...
Wallahu
a’lam bis shawab.
Anyway,
kalo bingung bahasa Inggrisnya, selamat berjuang. That’s a real training. Ada
yang request diajarin bahasa ini, kan? Nah, belajar dari bahan otentik saja :D
Padang,
May 10th, 2013
